alejandra

my cat is in heat 7 weeks after giving birth to 5 kittens.there’s only one now but she still hisses,growls,and hits her kitten when she’s in heat.kitten is still not weaned 100% but can eat on her own but mom is not giving her milk when she’s in heat.i have an un neutered male cat and he is trying to get her pregnant every chance he gets.i can’t spay her because right now almost all vets we can afford don’t do the spaying because of covid.also i don’t think we can get her spayed while her kittens still breastfeed.im more worried she could pass away while giving birth like some cats do.this is not unusual for cats but is there any way i could stop it?or calm her down at least?

My male cat hates his own kittens every time he gets my cat pregnant he will hate the kittens.he hates them ever since they’re born.he will hiss,growl,and make these weird noises almost like if he wants to cough on them.Then when the kittens are 2 months or older he will slap them sometimes.He also is sort of feral because he’s an outdoor cat who only comes inside for food once or twice a day.he does not like being inside.he also sprays when he sees the kittens and once sprayed all over them when they were sleeping.he does fight sometimes so it might be for territorial reasons.but we try showing him they are little baby kittens but he doesn’t care.he can be a lovable cat but he gets scared of the slightest noise and feels very paranoid.he just does not like his kittens and sometimes treats my female adult cat(the mom) badly sometimes 

Whenever I scratch my body like my arm or back it starts hurting very badly like if I were touching a bruise,this has been happening for a couple of months and I am not even old at all.It hurts so much that I get agitated and then want to cry,the pain does however go away after a minute or two,is this a medical problem?

I have a 11 year old sister and she has changed a lot over a year(mainly the past 6 months)

She no longer wants to hang out with me and she barely goes outside.Also,she spends 12-14 hours on her phone a day.She also is starting to eat less and is counting calories.Her favorite snacks she will refuse to eat because it’s “too much calories”.My mom has noticed a change but doesn’t do much.She also has said things like she will never talk to me when she is older and will move far away.Not only this but she will also bring up my past and say mean things.She has lost interest in having friends and I’m just worried for her.She has not spoken about feeling sad or anything so I’m not sure what I can do to help her.I am not here to criticize her,I just wish I could help her or know if it’s just typical moody tweens or if it’s depression