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Acouple of weeks a go my feonsay told me that I could go get some handcuffs and now she is changing her mind it not for anyting haveing to do with the bed room we were going to use them to loock up the groage because my uncle has two real pairs of them from being in the army and being a cop and now is reyered and doesn't want tem anymore he wants to give to me to lock up our gruage because people keep breaking into it and messing with our riding law mower and we right now we cant aford to buy a padle lock for it so sould I get them anyways or what sould I do.

My soon to be wife next year quit taking the depovera shot last year just before my brother was murdered and now she has been haveing pains down there and she has been bleeding from down ther eregualrly she has also been haveing stomaic pains bad headaches I'v been tryingto her to go and the doctor for awhile now but since she is liveing with her cusen she says that she has told her cusen to take her to the doctor for the past 3 moths or so and her cusen still hasn't taken her yet. I have also tryed getting her to move in with me but she wont do it right now because her cusen kees saying that she can't find another babysiter in waterloo Iowa which I know for a fact is a load of crap because my mom raised me and 4 other bothers in waterloo by herself until 1997. So what should I do I've tried everything that I can think of I"ve even had her talk to her mom and mom thinks that she sould move in with me and so do her friends that we have both know for a very long time. If you have any sugestions you can either put them on her or email at hambyphillip81@yahoo.com. thanks.