Dawn

Any one experience neighbour's maid kept smiling and walking around the corridor peeping into your house? What is she up to?

i have an uncle who loves to buy people dinner. i felt stress everytime of his offer as we do not wish to take things for granted. i would rather buy gifts for them as a return of his treat or rejected his offers. my husband felt this is a financial stress to him but my mum thinks he is stingy to her family relatives. I felt this si unfair to my husband as he treated my mum very well but he really cannot afford to buy her relatives dinners as well. can you advice me ? can you teach me how to explain to my sensitive mum ?

dear friends, so sorry that i had raised the same question again.

but this time my mum wants a divorce. she said my dad had made her life miserable and cause her heart medical problems. she cannot stand my dad kept making seducing signals to the neighbour upstair of the same flat. she said the woman neighbour also return several signals/ banging sounds and cause my mum had sleeping problems for over a year. she cried and claimed that i do not trust her.

i'm married now and my brother is the only one who stay with them. i tried asking him whats happening. he either kept quiet or angry. very hard to have discussions with him. my mum warned me not to share this with him as she does not wants her son to vex with this issue.

i had been suffering for 20 over years and i'm the only one who got this ****. i was not allowed to share but to endure.

why she wants to me to know only ? i dare not do anything as i dun wish to see anything worst happen at home. she wants me to boycott my father and stand by her side. wants to me to do something to revenge, what can i do now ?

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my past questions:

my mum always suspicious of her kids, husbands, son in laws and neighbours. always over exaggerate small problems to big troubles. created misery to family and always quarrelled with family members due to neighbours and tiny matters. never trust and listen to family advices and only take and trust outsiders' comments. These bad habits had lead to countless quarrels and arguments in family. so sickening. it was a mental torture to me for 30 over years.

i don't know why she wants to make her life miserable. i meant she should be contented as she has stable income, kids grown up and myself had married with a son. she has a adorable grandchild(my son). why she still not happy ? she always said she has hard life, cos she do have a good husband, no good neighbours. but my father had not done any thing serious or ruin the family. its just that he is not clever and not earning big money. she has very irritating neighbours above her flat and was quite disturbing with making funny noise. but she cried over this to me that she was bully as the widow neighbour want to snatch her husband. sigh........ i was bombarded by this nonsense everyday. i think i will the one who break down first.

sigh..... i don't what i can do. she doesn't listen and take my advice. she always insisted she is right and others are not. what can i do?

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my mum always suspicious of her kids, husbands, son in laws and neighbours. always over exaggerate small problems to big troubles. created misery to family and always quarrelled with family members due to neighbours and tiny matters. never trust and listen to family advices and only take and trust outsiders' comments. These bad habits had lead to countless quarrels and arguments in family. so sickening. it was a mental torture to me for 30 over years.

i don't know why she wants to make her life miserable. i meant she should be contented as she has stable income, kids grown up and myself had married with a son. she has a adorable grandchild(my son). why she still not happy ? she always said she has hard life, cos she do have a good husband, no good neighbours. but my father had not done any thing serious or ruin the family. its just that he is not clever and not earning big money. she has very irritating neighbours above her flat and was quite disturbing with making funny noise. but she cried over this to me that she was bully as the widow neighbour want to snatch her husband. sigh........ i was bombarded by this nonsense everyday. i think i will the one who break down first.

sigh..... i don't what i can do. she doesn't listen and take my advice. she always insisted she is right and others are not. what can i do?

my mum always suspicious of her kids, husbands, son in laws and neighbours. always over exaggerate small problems to big troubles. created misery to family and always quarrelled with family members due to neighbours and tiny matters. never trust and listen to family advices and only take and trust outsiders' comments. These bad habits had lead to countless quarrels and arguments in family. so sickening. it was a mental torture to me for 30 over years.

mum very funny. last month blame me for not celebrating her birthday on the chinese lunar date. so i quickly buy her a nice take away dinner and my hubby quickly tonic gifts for her lunar date birthday. last week she flare up and said i saved money did not bring her out for dinner to celebrate her birthday. said i had no heart to give her a good present. heartless daughter. not filial. i was so confused. dun know what to do. i thought i had done my part cos she wants birthday greetings early instead belated ones. she asked why i did not celebrate for her in the english date which is this month. sigh. i thought it was over and now. sigh. what should i do now ? she hates me like hell. dun take my call and kept telling others that i treated her already dead like that.

mum very funny. last month blame me for not celebrating her birthday on the chinese lunar date. so i quickly buy her a nice take away dinner and my hubby quickly tonic gifts for her lunar date birthday. last week she flare up and said i saved money did not bring her out for dinner to celebrate her birthday. said i had no heart to give her a good present. heartless daughter. not filial. i was so confused. dun know what to do. i thought i had done my part cos she wants birthday greetings early instead belated ones. she asked why i did not celebrate for her in the english date which is this month. sigh. i thought it was over and now. sigh. what should i do now ? she hates me like hell. dun take my call and kept telling others that i treated her already dead like that.

hi, any one can advise me if there are any budget apartments or budget hostel near QUEENS WAYS WEST , Toronto ? We need to stay there for 2 months so we can't spend too much on accommodation. Thank you very much. please advise

she dun trusted me as she thinks i betray her. she always told me off that i should not share my family problems with my hubby as man is not trustworthy and shouldn't trust your husband too much.

he slim down a lot when he went to childcare. he dun ate. sigh........ he fall sick easily. he went 2 months and he fall sick twice already. how to make him like his food. he wants to eat but he is more interested in junk food. please help!

any one can advice me ? thanks

my friend chosen to give me an internet invitation card instead a formal invitation cards to her wedding as she said she dun have enough cards. i was the only one who received this and yet other friends have proper formal invitation card. i felt hurt. could not explained why but just felt sad and hurt

some parent had many disputes and wanted their kids to side either one of them. sigh.......