Jessica

[feel free to skip the first paragraph, it's mostly mushy stuff]

Let me start by telling you a little about my wonderful man. He's beautiful in every single way and never ceases to amaze me. He is respectful to me and every person, kind hearted and generous. He loves music, he writes his own and plays guitar, his songs are always poetry and he writes from the heart. We've given each other all that we have to give, and he's always planned our romantic evenings and this time I want to surprise him!

I want our new years to be exciting and romantic in the big city! I've looked at clubs (they have to be 18+ because of me unfortunately :P), restaurants and the piers. We're down for anywhere in the Bay Area (california), and pretty much any sort of event. Just throw out ideas! Any and all are appreciated!

Google isn't helping. Any massage therapists know a website? Or simply work in Santa Cruz, Ca know the requirements for hours, rules, and how much it costs? Thanks.

Hey all! I just moved to the area with my wonderful boyfriend and we need help finding fun stuff to do here! We have a few friends in the area but we want to meet new people together! What is a great place in this area to meet people? Or fun stuff do do thats cheap, or free? I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23, so we'd like to meet people in or around our age group. We're pretty versatile and like a lot of different things!

Plus, what is it you guys do to make new friends? How can I do it? Conversation starters? I'm a chill person and not very loud and would love to be more social, and outgoing when it comes to new people.

Plus if your a person who lives near this area, email me your Y!IM username and I'll message you to see if we have anything in common.

Thanks ahead of time!!

find out if he/she knows the little details about you?

For example: Where did I go to school?

Personal opinion: Retaining facts about an s/o's life shows that you are really interested in being a part of their life and in them. Agree or disagree?

Like toys, and interesting ways to eat veggies and treats!

For example: I put shredded paper in a toilet paper roll with the sides pinched in so the paper wouldn't fall out. Cut a decent sized hole in the side so they could pull the peices out. And walla! A very cheap, recycled and safe toy my birds (cockatiels and one female dove) can explore with and practice nesting with.

What are some of your ideas? Where do you get your ideas, materials? How much does it cost? etc.

Star it if you like this question and found it fun and interesting :)

Add me if your a nice, cockatiel/dove loving person :)

So I try to have a positive stance on porn and my fiance looking at it. I consider the fact that it means he has a strong sexual desire (that I really enjoy). I also know that it's completely human for men and women to be aesthetically sexually charged.

On the other hand, it does make me uncomfortable and I cant do anything about the way I feel. So don't try to tell me I can because

I understand porn, why its attractive and so on. It just hurts to know that while I'm asleep in the SAME room he's enjoying the nudity of other women.

So my plan for the last couple of weeks has been to wear sexy outfits, photograph myself in and out of those sexy outfits. Having spontaneous and risky (in the car, on the wall, etc) multiple times a day (even if I'm not that interested). Looking at the pictures to create a real life fantasy for him. I even let him photograph us while having sex (which we both really enjoyed). And of course we've talked about it, we have very good communication. Although remnants of porn files keep showing up.

Is there anything you've done (other than nagging and telling him/her to cut it out) that made the need for porn dissappear?

Also, is there a photo site that I can join, have private for myself that allows nude photos? I dont think photobucket allows it..

I've have two male cockatiels (brothers) since infants and I've had them for almost ten years. One of them, has recently started plucking beneath his wings. They have a ton of enrichment, an enoormous cage, and fresh food and water always available to them. Not once have either of them plucked until the past month or so (that I noticed when he lifted his wing). We recently moved but they both seem to be happier in the new situation. Always singing, being social and being included in daily life. Why is he plucking and what can I do to make it stop?