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Hi, Ladies if you have had a misscarriage one or more or no someone who has please send me advice. Thanks.

Here is my story;

In March 2010 I was 3 months pregnant & had a misscarriage.

I had to also have a D & C hardest thing I had ever been through so far in life, having a misscarriage to some women I think ( like myself) can be very hard and emotional.

Well, if that was not hard enough this year being 2012 in the month of March again I was 3 months pregnant again & had another misscarriage. This one being super hard for me because I went from point A to haven faith that everything was going to be ok with this pregnancy and would be giving birth in October.

I went to be my Doctor because I was having a brown discharge and she said it was just old blood that when she did the ultra sound that everything looked great that the baby was still there.

That the only thing that concerns her was the old blood and did not know really what was causing the old blood. She told me if it gets bad to go to the E.R.

So, the next day I started bleeding bright red blood & went to the E.R. right away they ran test said my pregnancy horomone's was very high like they are suppose to be that when they did the pelvic exam that my utreaus was closed.

They said that they did even know why I was bleeding that everything looked fine and sent me home.

I kept telling them that I was in pain & they said that it was just cramping I said NO, this is worse than cramping.

Come to find out after I had been home from an hour I woke up from a nap with my husband and told him to take me back to the E.R. ASAP I was screaming because the pain was so bad.. the doctor said I was in Labor and I had complete misscarriage on the sheets.

I went from point A to point B having faith to be getting told everything was fine, to point B to losing something that ment the world to me.

I really was no shocked because the Pain I was in I sorta knew what was going on.

A week later I had a D & C because there was some tissue left.

My Doctor said usually, when there is a pattern in having misscarriage's ( like myself) it means that during the early stages of pregnancy the baby is not producing enough progesterone on its own and that's why I misscarry.

She said when me & my husband decide to get pregnant again that as soon as I find out I am pregnant she has to start giving me progesterone shots to help my carry full term.

Has anybody out there been through such a loss and heart broken?

Does anyone know if the shot really does help you carry full term?

At the moment I do not think I will try and get pregnant any time soon for a long, long, time because right now I need to focus on letting my body heal, and recovering from such a broken heart.

I don't want to get pregnant right away and be pregnant in FEAR thinking that it will happen again because it has happen twice.

Great thing that I know that gives me faith is knowing that I know I can have a baby and will one day.

Thanks for the advice,

Hannah

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I am drug free, have never even been on anything.

What could this be?

I am 20 and in good health

Not planning on haven any kid's soon.

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But, my question is

1. How long do I need to be off adipex before me and my husband decide to starting haven a baby?

2. How long does it take to get out of your system?

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Than this year he has the one with his wife & kids. So can anybody please explain it too me

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because he said that "Your the only women that has ever did this for me" & than a couple months later he comes out and tells you the truth.

After all, I have to give him credit for telling me the truth months later, when he could had just kept it from me but i am really hurt because all these months "I felt that much special" and when he told me the truth I was very disappointed and my feelings were hurt because he lied.

I am letting it go, i done already told him how i felt. Now it's just time to get over it I guess there is nothing I can do. I would had rather him tell me before we married than to bring it into our marriage and cause pain.

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She said it is free when you go to a Foster care, but I did not know that you could adopt a newborn

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For those who have been married for year's. Not for those who have been divorced,

nothing against you. It's just it always seems some people that have been divorced have the attitude of been there done that!

Me & my husband have a great marriage, I think our communication skills could improved though.

I am 20 year's of age & he's 24. We are both serve in the U.S. ARMY.

My husband will tell me something and always turn the story around. It could be over the stupidest thing's sometimes I even laugh at because I don't understand why he does that.

Example; He will be telling me something and I will question him about what he's telling me because I either (A) Don't understand or (B) His story is not making sense.

So, after a couple of hour's I will try to think through what he has told me to make sure I understand it, or try to make sense of what he is telling me.

Than a couple of hour's I will ask him & his whole story will change, it could be over the dumbest thing's that I could care less about. It really bothers me that the his story always changes i feel like in a way he's lien to me. Than when I say well you could have just told me that the first time, instead of lien to me. Than this is what he says well you just didn't understand what I was saying the first time & was confused. No I feel like he is the one that is making me confused because he flip flops his story around.

Is it just me? what do I do? Is there another way I could approach him about it when it happens besides telling him how i feel, and saying that he is lien to me. We don't have any trust issues but why does he have to change his story up? It could lead to that if he does not stop.

We love each other more than anything, we are always here for each other & support each other through the hard time's I feel like I am being the best wife I can.

Advice Please,

Thanks.

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(No Rude comments plz)

I am a Proud Army Wife who's husband is goin off to Basic in a couple of months.

How does he set up an account where I can get acsess to his money that hes maken in Basic Training? We do not have a joint account yet--we are newly wedds. He says he wants to set it up that

way where he can provide for while i'm gone. I know they set there pay with an Armed Forces Bank so does he just fill out paperwork b4 he goes into basic agreeing that he gives the bank permission and puts my name stateing i can with drawl funds will i get a debit card for that? how much will it be For the things I need. Please let me know

Thanks & God bless

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