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  • Stopped texting me out the blue?

    Long story short me and this guy texted for about a week pretty consistently. He kept saying how he wanted to meet me (we started talking on a dating app lol) and take me out on a date. He kept saying how much we had in common blah blah. I mostly didn't believe what he said because I've heard it all before and nothing ever happens. Well he was known to go a day or two without texting me but would tell me why later. Problem was I had to be the one to say something for him to talk to me again but the convo wasn't forced after that. So he went almost a week without texting me and I sent him something and he never sent me anything back. It's been about 2 weeks so I deleted his number. Why if we were "so perfect" in his eyes did he just drop me? I wasn't against meeting him at all...

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Is He Scared? Distancing Himself From Me?

    So I have this professor and we have been super close these past few years. I'm leaving in a few weeks for graduation though. Weird thing is he normally will tease me, and I'll do the same, but it's always cute and nice and not mean. Lately when we are alone we are perfectly fine but when we are together with someone else he starts teasing me in a bad mean way :( He has said that he has a hard time letting go of students so I'm thinking he is distancing himself now from me so when I leave it isn't as hard. This makes little sense though because I've told him numerous times how we will talk when I leave and he has agreed and liked the idea. I'm 99% sure he has a crush on me and I like him too so does that have something to do with it? He started acting different a few weeks ago and it's really getting to me now. I'm about to stop talking to him now unless I absolutely have to which will be very odd to him since we talk all the time. He isn't doing this with anyone else but I don't think he's as close to anyone else like me

    1 AnswerFriends7 years ago
  • Is He Distancing Himself From Me?

    So I have this professor and we have been super close these past few years. I'm leaving in a few weeks for graduation though. Weird thing is he normally will tease me, and I'll do the same, but it's always cute and nice and not mean. Lately when we are alone we are perfectly fine but when we are together with someone else he starts teasing me in a bad mean way :( He has said that he has a hard time letting go of students so I'm thinking he is distancing himself now from me so when I leave it isn't as hard. This makes little sense though because I've told him numerous times how we will talk when I leave and he has agreed and liked the idea. I'm 99% sure he has a crush on me and I like him too so does that have something to do with it? He started acting different a few weeks ago and it's really getting to me now. I'm about to stop talking to him now unless I absolutely have to which will be very odd to him since we talk all the time.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Do Cayenne Capsules Burn Fat?

    I know they take away a few calories more than normal (not a lot but it builds up over time!) And I've heard they can burn fat. So is it true? I've been taking one with each big meal which is about 2 a day so does it help? I'm not overly active or overly overweight but I do want to lose a few inches and pounds!

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness7 years ago
  • Why is he acting like this all of a sudden?

    So I like this guy and I think he likes me (he is older than me). Anyways when we are alone we are perfect, flirty, nice, charming, blah blah. But lately when one other person is with us he likes to tease me in a meaner than usual way. I don't know why he is doing this. It only happens when one other person is there, not a group of people. I have mentioned another guy I like (not like that though) and the original guy has been acting weird ever since. Why would a guy act like this?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • He sees me as more than a friend doesn't he?

    So me and this guy have known each other for years. Long story short, he's an asshole (please no lectures) and I'm 99% he likes me (I like him as well). Anyways he recently got a girlfriend and before revealing this he had just stopped talking to me for a month. This is the 3rd time he's stopped talking to me because of a girl (twice for a gf and once for a female friend of his). What am I to him? Obviously I'm not JUST a friend to him because there wouldn't be a need to stop talking to me, so does he see me as a threat to his new girls or is it something else. Either way this has opened my eyes and I now realize if he can so easily throw me away the second a new girl comes, I don't need him in my life (which sucks because we vibe perfectly together like it's super weird how perfect we are sometimes). So am I a threat or just nothing?

    2 AnswersFriends7 years ago
  • What am I to him, more than friends or...?

    So me and this guy have known each other for years. Long story short, he's an asshole (please no lectures) and I'm 99% he likes me (I like him as well). Anyways he recently got a girlfriend and before revealing this he had just stopped talking to me for a month. This is the 3rd time he's stopped talking to me because of a girl (twice for a gf and once for a female friend of his). What am I to him? Obviously I'm not JUST a friend to him because there wouldn't be a need to stop talking to me, so does he see me as a threat to his new girls or is it something else. Either way this has opened my eyes and I now realize if he can so easily throw me away the second a new girl comes, I don't need him in my life (which sucks because we vibe perfectly together like it's super weird how perfect we are sometimes). So am I a threat or just nothing?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Why aren't they talking to me anymore did I do something wrong? GUYS!?

    So I was talking to these 2 guys, one is a bit of an asshole and the other is sweet but has a problem with the law. The asshole one will more likely than not keep a conversation up with me when I start it but twice now he just hasn't at all... (Long story with me and him I'm sure he likes me but is too stubborn to admit it) And the other one has court this month and I've tried checking up on him and literally no response (we have hooked up twice but talking had stopped recently because of personal problems on his end). So why did they just stop talking to me all of a sudden? Why will guys just do this? And I'm not trying to boast that I was talking to two guys so don't say that please and thanks.

    1 AnswerFriends7 years ago
  • Why didn't they answer me what happened?

    So I was talking to these 2 guys, one is a bit of an asshole and the other is sweet but has a problem with the law. The asshole one will more likely than not keep a conversation up with me when I start it but twice now he just hasn't at all... (Long story with me and him I'm sure he likes me but is too stubborn to admit it) And the other one has court this month and I've tried checking up on him and literally no response (we have hooked up twice but talking had stopped recently because of personal problems on his end). So why did they just stop talking to me all of a sudden? Why will guys just do this? And I'm not trying to boast that I was talking to two guys so don't say that please and thanks.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • GUYS what does this mean, he likes me?

    So I've noticed with me and this guy, I will say something like we should hang out and he will complain and basically say no. A few days/weeks later (whenever I'm home from college) he will ask me what I'm doing that particular day and we will hang out. I feel like by me mentioning it I'm planting a seed in his head and eventually he falls and asks me to hang out. Does this mean he may like me? Other things he does makes me feel like he does but does this signify anything?

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships7 years ago
  • Does this mean he likes me or is just coincidence?

    So I've noticed with me and this guy, I will say something like we should hang out and he will complain and basically say no. A few days/weeks later (whenever I'm home from college) he will ask me what I'm doing that particular day and we will hang out. I feel like by me mentioning it I'm planting a seed in his head and eventually he falls and asks me to hang out. Does this mean he may like me? Other things he does makes me feel like he does but does this signify anything?

    1 AnswerFriends7 years ago
  • Does this signify anything or just coincidence?

    So I've noticed with me and this guy, I will say something like we should hang out and he will complain and basically say no. A few days/weeks later (whenever I'm home from college) he will ask me what I'm doing that particular day and we will hang out. I feel like by me mentioning it I'm planting a seed in his head and eventually he falls and asks me to hang out. Does this mean he may like me? Other things he does makes me feel like he does but does this signify anything?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Should I text him again or leave it alone? I miss him!?

    So this guy and I admitted we liked each other and reconnected and have hooked up twice

    He's having a rough time right now with personal issues so I told him I'll be here for him if he wants

    I texted him a week ago checking up and got no answer, which is fine he may be a person who wants to be left alone when they have problems

    I said hey a few days ago and he didn't answer. I really miss talking to him so should I text again or leave it? He's been on Facebook so he's decent hopefully I just don't want to be annoying but I miss him :(

    1 AnswerFriends7 years ago
  • He hasn't texted me back, should I try again?

    So this guy and I admitted we liked each other and reconnected and have hooked up twice

    He's having a rough time right now with personal issues so I told him I'll be here for him if he wants

    I texted him a week ago checking up and got no answer, which is fine he may be a person who wants to be left alone when they have problems

    I said hey a few days ago and he didn't answer. I really miss talking to him so should I text again or leave it? He's been on Facebook so he's decent hopefully I just don't want to be annoying but I miss him :(

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • HELP! Should I just text them and stop waiting?

    So I use to talk to these 2 boys about once every other day it was great. Well one has been having personal issues and I told him he can talk to me if he wants and the other one goes to school and we both had finals so I figured these were the reasons they haven't said anything to me. This is all fine because I know we all have lives and problems but I MISS THEM. So should I just text them or wait longer? It's been 2 weeks :( I'm home now so I can potentially hang out with one and I want to check up with the other.

    3 AnswersFriends7 years ago
  • URGENT: Should I text them or wait...even longer?!?

    So I use to talk to these 2 boys about once every other day it was great. Well one has been having personal issues and I told him he can talk to me if he wants and the other one goes to school and we both had finals so I figured these were the reasons they haven't said anything to me. This is all fine because I know we all have lives and problems but I MISS THEM. So should I just text them or wait longer? It's been 2 weeks :( I'm home now so I can potentially hang out with one and I want to check up with the other.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • What are some reasons why a guy wouldn't admit he likes a girl?

    Especially if the girl shows interests and so does he but he can't come out and say it?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Why doesn't he seem to want me sexually?

    So there's this guy that I've known for a few years, to make a very long story short I'm 99% sure he likes me. He hasn't and probably won't admit to this :( His actions scream that he likes me but he always says "I don't like you" blah blah basically just talking to talk. So my question is, I don't completely throw myself at him but I make it kinda obvious that I like him (especially physically). So my question is when I'm trying to touch him or talk casually with him about sexual topics he kinda brushes me off? So I think there are 3 scenarios:

    -He likes me but is scared to be with me

    -He actually doesn't like me (I'm 99% sure this one isn't true)

    -He doesn't want me to just throw myself at him, but does like me back

    So which one is it? We have fooled around once (no sex just oral) and we semi cuddled but not really for a movie night (we were constantly touching the whole time in some way or form). It's like he doesn't want to get sexual with me... I am a virgin and he said he doesn't want to take a girl's virginity (which I respect) so could he be avoiding sexual stuff because he doesn't want to be tempted with me then not be able to go all the way with me? We are both in our early 20s.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Is My Hymen Broken or Still Intact?

    I'm 21 years old so I've been having my period for awhile now

    I tried tampons once and it was hell taking it out so I figure that may have helped to break my hymen down

    I'm a virgin but have been fingered and have had "the tip" in me if you know what I mean

    After having the tip in me I spotted the rest of that day and it hurt a bit

    I played soccer for almost a decade when I was younger

    I've had a pap smear (spectrum) and other vaginal exam (nurses finger). I was sore for a few hours after but didn't spot/bleed

    I still consider myself a VIRGIN but has my hymen broken a bit or do you think it's still fully intact? 2 fingers can fit maybe halfway up (compared to just one finger) if that helps. Thanks!

    4 AnswersWomen's Health7 years ago
  • Do guys only let girls they like sit on their lap?

    Or will a guy let anyone just sit on their lap? Also I was sittin on this guys I like lap and I was really just on his thighs and he told me to scoot back pretty much on him. Did he do it to be comfortable or because he likes me and just wanted me closer to his...? I figure if he didn't like me he wouldn't have let me sit on his lap, so does he like me because of it?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago