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Max asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

My friend for six years suddenly says she loves me. Please can u help?

She knows i have someone in my life even though she has always been there in times of trouble. Could she be asking me to return the favour or does she really love me; what do i do?

I dont want to loose the friendship!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you love her back go for it theres nothing to loose my sister went out with her best friend they're still best friends now even after they've split up. If you don't love her back be nice in telling her it can't happen and don't treat her differently because you know she likes you

  • julez
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Did she say she loves you as a friend, or did she say she is falling in love with you and wants something more intimate? I tell my friends I love them because I do, but it doesnt mean I want to be involved with them intimately. You need to ask her and clarify the situation. Tell her you feel flattered, but you care for the person you are with and cherish her friendship and always will.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you better made your stand clearly to her. She may mean it when she say she love you. Tell her that you cherish your friendship and she should look for somebody who is more suitable for her and not you. This sort of things have to be made known to her quickly before things get worse

  • 1 decade ago

    usualy, if you have been friends for that long, she either wants you to love her back because she truely loves you, or she just doesnt like your current g/f, but i know my friendship/love didnt work out, we broke up before getting together, i know not alot of encouragement, but i only speak the truth

    good luck, and look in her eyes, you'll know if she's honest of not at the moment,, peace out brother!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Make your move. Take her to a party or the movies and be protective of her. Hold her hand in public.

  • 1 decade ago

    Treat her words as a joke, just move on with life. Unless there is action then you better tell her the "OB" markers.

  • 1 decade ago

    Whao! If you are a guy, you must be damn lucky. Now, you have two girls... one to bonk, and the other to help you clean up any mess.

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