How Do I Breakup with someone?

Question

i love my girlfriend but i think i have to break-up with her so how do i do that when i'm still in love with her? 
she over jealous and she tries to put me on guilt trips in order to change my desisons.
i know she loves me and thats why she acts that way sometimes but its too much for me to deal with all the time.
i really would like her to remain apart of my life but i think it best i let her go...... please help!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
it breaks my heart to even think about letting her go and when i do tell her its over she starts crying and stops eating for days until we make up again and then it starts all over!

DeFreeze · Accepted Answer

You are in an emotionally abusive relationship. If I were you, I'd seriously reconsider the notion that you are in love with her.  This isn't healthy. You deserve better and you know it. It wont be easy, but in time you will get over her.

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Anonymous · Answer

OK this is a bit mad but there girl is just really in to you I'm in and will be like that for awhile if you do decide to break up but as long as she knows that you will be there to get back with her she will never really get over you...so i think the best thing for everyone would be for you to let her go..You sound like a good bloke but  do whats best for everyone

Anonymous · Answer

if you strongly believe that you should break up then do it. i mean just sit her down and talk. stay calm as best as possible because the more calm you are the less chance she will totally freakout. you shouldnt keep leading her on when you know the relationship is going no where. at first she may not wanna be in your life but she will come around eventually and you can be friends.

sunny side up · Answer

Your girlfriends ways of handeling hurt isnt your problem.  She is making you an emotional prisoner.  Break it off, gentle but firm.  Then walk away and stay away.  Her wounds WILL heal.  If not then se was way too much oof a mess to begin with and needs help, not relationaships.

Baby J · Answer

You need to have a talk with her and tell her all these things that you've just typed. If she can't understand it's not your fault; you've tried your best to deal but it's just not working out. Explain to her that you still love her, but in order for you to be able to be together things need to change. 
Hope I helped.
Good luck!

Blake&#39;s Mommy &lt;3 · Answer

you should see a relationship counselor, they really help open up the communication lines and figure out why you are feeling the way you are.  If you really love each other its worth it to try!!

Starfire S · Answer

Just tell her that you need space.  Who knows, maybe you guys will get back together. 

P.S. If she tells you that she's not eating don't feel bad.  It's her way of manipulation.

Anonymous · Answer

tell her you dont feel the same way about her but you would like to be great friends

smartie · Answer

well tell her you dont wanna be in a relationship right now.

How Do I Breakup with someone?

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