What would you do ladies (guys can answer too)? Please let me know!?

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If you had a male friend with benefits that you hooked up with once to twice a week and slowly started feeling emotions towards him(more then just "friend" emotions), would you end that relationship/ friendship/ whatever it's called with him? Why or why not? What would you do? & of course I would love to know if he feels anything like that back, but will never be brave enough to ask.. Please, mature answers only. Thanks. <3

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well i was hooking up with my friend... and she was really a good friend, we liked doing all of the same stuff and we listened to the same music, and when we were hooking up there was NO emotion involved!... Because she had a boyfriend... hahaha yeah I'm a terrible person... anyways when that boyfriend left her or whatever she started having feeling for me, and I was still on that 'were just friends' mindset... it made things way too weird when she started asking for a relationship, like instead of hooking up she was texting and calling me all day, i couldn't handle it, but looking back i kinda wish i would have gave it a chance, she was great and i have never gotten along with some girl so well in my life... 
anyways i guess i'm just trying to say be careful, talk to him about it, don't just try to force it into a relationship, because if i had time to consider dating her rather than her just coming out of nowhere expecting that things may have turned out differently

dave s · Answer

I would start slowing things down with this guy. Get yourself another friends with benefits and see if you still feel the same about him. Maybe since you are sexually active with him, you feel like you are getting emotionally attached. It could just be sex. You will never know if you dont try something else out.

What would you do ladies (guys can answer too)? Please let me know!?

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