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Why no meaningful relationships?
I get plenty of woman, but lately I haven't been able to start a relationship. Woman I get to know always say they are surprised by my personality because they just assumed I was a "player." Now I'm intelligent enough to recognize that I may very well have a bit of a reputation problem. However, I'm not sure that is the only problem. I'm cognizant of the fact that I tend to be a bit shallow. It's something I've been working on. I have to admit I'm a bit jealous of my friends who have committed relationships when I just bounce for woman to woman. Does it sound like I mainly have a bad rep, or is it something more? If anyone can think of extra details that may help you get a better picture of the situation I can add them.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavourite answer
Maybe you're choosing the wrong women. If you go for looks only you're probalby not gonna find someone you have a lot in common with and want to have a meaningful relationship with. Try looking for women who are smart and have a good personality also. Its ok if they are pretty too, a girl can be both. Then wait awhile before you start the physical part of the relationship. Start off just talking and getting to know each other and doing things together like going to the movies or things you both like.
- HaroldLv 41 decade ago
Hi, Steve Harvey has a book about dating and relationships called : Act like a Lady, Think like a Man. The book is a good read and just what the doctor has ordered. The book will help you with meaningful relationships.
- 1 decade ago
You're probably just bouncing around because you haven't found the right one. You will know when you do. You'll quit being shallow and accept their flaws! Don't be jealous of your friends, you'll find the right one! I promise and you'll be proud to call her yours ;)
- 1 decade ago
Well mayb is the vibe you give off...you should be clear about what you want...perhaps be more serious???...and less flirty...good luck...
