Why did she text me and not respond?

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Okay, so there is this girl I thought i was going to get with we met up 4 times in a week and she came around my house (that's the last time I saw her) after that day she was ignoring my texts and taking ages to reply when I was with her one time she told me she ignores people if she does not like them so I assume she does not like me, basically as she was ignoring me I didn't text her because why am I going to waste time on a girl that does not like me but anyways I got a text from her saying "Hey babe, you alright?" with 10 kisses and so I respond saying "Yeah, i'm fine thanks you?" but she didn't reply, why do girls do this, because it happened with a girl before too, why do they message you and then ignore you, 1 hour after I replied she was messaging my friend (she don't know we know each other) saying that she is looking for the right guy despite telling me I'm perfect and all that bullshit...

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im thinking she regrets stopping by your place. My bestfriend was into this guy once and when she went to his place to chill she got really annoyed. He wasnt charming at all and from the stories i heard he wasnt showing that he was into her, he was acting really really casual. She txted him that night after she left and he never answered, they havent talked since. As far as the txt, if she put that many kiss faces and called you babe, and you responded coldly it turned her away. Im not saying i wouldnt have responded the exact same way as you because i hate when people are fake but i can understand where shes coming from. My advice is that if she is worth you time and effort, confront her directly about everything. I think she'll appreciate that because guys tend to play the game and it gets annoying...

Anonymous · Answer

She's probably ignoring you, playing hard to get or simply isn't interested. Sorry mate :/

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she's just not that into you

Why did she text me and not respond?

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