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Playing Hard to Get or Friendzoned?!?

Simple question, no long context. If your hanging out just you two and your jsut talking about makeup and girl says, "I don't wear much makeup, I have no one to impress anyway." Is she telling you to **** off or playing hard to get?

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  • 4 years ago
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    Lol, I can see what you mean. Both you and I look too deeply into what is actually happening. In this case, I don't think she is trying to play chess, you don't need to think ahead or try to symbolize what she says. You probably like her and as a result are looking for signs that help to decipher your ultimate decision. In this scenario, her giving signs and you deciding she does in fact like you might hinder your current friendship.

    I have lost a potential friend because of this, I'd recommend just taking what they say at face value. Seems like she just sees you as a friend and enjoys telling you personal things for this same reason. I don't want to say this, but the friend-zone isn't too bad.

    To go beyond this might break the wall of trust and friendship; If she doesn't express your same interest.

  • 4 years ago

    You can't really know. It isn't good to try and look too deeply into every little word, statement or gesture that she makes. Many are guilty of doing this. I am no exception, especially if I like them. But to be honest, it could be many things. It is very possible that she was saying that without any ulterior motives, or maybe she was playing hard to get, or was sending you some clear message. I think it's all in context as well. But if you aren't sure, don't try and puzzle it out because I don't think it's worth your time.

  • 4 years ago

    I don't think it is either. I think it was just a statement of fact.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    The friend zone does not exist. Get it through your thick skull that you can be friends with girls just like you can be friends with boys...do you think this way about your guy friends? That they are either 'friendzoning' you (aka that you see their friendship as a runner up prize that's essentially worthless to you, on the basis that you think you're somehow entitled to sex and relationships from them) or playing hard to get? I doubt it, so stop treating girls this way you cretin.

    Grow up and start treating women like people.

  • 4 years ago

    One is egotistical, the other is embarrassing.

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