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Why do men have to pretend being busy to attract women. Like waiting hours before replying to her text to pretend you are busy.?

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    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    Never heard of this one.

  • 3 years ago

    No one is actually "too busy". I've caught guys in the "too busy" texting scam and if they truly want to communicate with you - unless they have a job that calls for their phones to be off or they can't be on their phones until their break - they WILL FIND TIME.

    I've learned that men will be texting OTHER women and then go back to the woman they were originally texting.

    If a guy gives you a sign like "I can't text for a few hours since I'll be at work/ with my family" the he's being legit.

    If he texts you and then out of nowhere disappears for hours and messages you again like nothing - then he's preoccupied with other things and really has no interest in chatting with you.

    My solution? Don't text those guys back if it takes them 7-10 hours to reply without a courtesy call or message that you'll hear from them later. It's simply disrespectful and doesn't show strong communication building blocks for a friendship or relationship. You deserve a text back!!!

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