Why I attract gay guys but no females?

My personality is very adult like when it comes to responsibilities. But my behavior is that of an angry person in the open and very childlike when no one is around. My looks are that of a teen even if I am 30 and I am short..... 5-2. All my female freands the very few I have are all freandzone. Guys just love to get me angry and even go to the point of touching even if they got wives. They were not like that at the start but it's getting a bit out of hand they are coworkers. I just seem to be able to make guy freands very easy even without trying. Even my first freand was actually gay and used me we were kids. During my military time a sergeant told me that I was invited to live with him. The only physical encounter with a female was my teen babysitter use me for pleasure when a was a little boy. Other females decided to go with a different guy.