Why can’t I get an erection ?

Question

So my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months, we are very active a lot, and most recently last night we were having sex but legitimately in the middle of it I went soft like out of no where, I don’t why it happened then this morning I tried again, same thing, kicked off well then once it was in the middle it went soft, I don’t know what’s happening and don’t get me wrong I love my girlfriend so much I love to be with her I have the sexual need but I can’t erect, I hope to god it’s temporary because I don’t want my girlfriend to feel I’m not into her anymore because I really am, I just want to know what’s happening to me

shroud · Answer

every guy has this issue sometime and it can be at any age
the first time is something like you're stressed, tired
the next time or more is because you are so worried about it happening again

wildmanny2 · Answer

She may be talking about wanting a baby too much for you to trust her.Or it could just be performance anxiety which men often have .Just relax and enjoy her beautiful body,it's yours to enjoy.

River Euphrates · Answer

I used to have this problem when I jerked off to pron a lot - as soon as I stopped, the problem went away.

pit bulls bite · Answer

is watching p0rn a problem

Anonymous · Answer

you are suffering from malnutrition
try big mac double patty beef burgers
take 2 eggs for breakfast
one tablespoon of honey at night
no need for viagra

bender_xr217 · Answer

So please her using your hands, fingers, mouth and tongue and watch how turned on you get by seeing how turned on she is.

David · Answer

Take a break for a week or so. No porn and no girlfriend.  It will likely clear up for you.

Max Hoopla · Answer

If you're soft, you're not going to be into her any more.  Ask you regular doctor for help.

Lôn · Answer

Send her to me, I'll service her properly!

Anonymous · Answer

watching porn is one of the most common reasons for this.

Why can’t I get an erection ?

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