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There's eye contact going on. Yet, neither I nor her have yet to break the silence. Any advice?

There's a girl who sits next to me in music, and for the last few weeks, I've been noticing the exchanges of eye contact for a short moment. So there's the obvious thing out of all this.

There's usually nothing said between both of us except for questions that 'need' to be answered. There's a big lack of the casual, easy-going conversations.

I decided recently that I should really do something about this, but whenever I get my chance to speak up, I'm stuck speechless.

Even today, she was standing with her friends on the sidewalk where I pass everyday to get home. There was that eye contact, smile. Like stagefright, I had no reaction and I feel like a total idiot walking by like that.

Does anyone have any idea how I should break the silence? or even put up a play involving my friends. I'm not afraid to pull my usual band of friends into this, as they've already discussed and solved someone else's similar situation to this.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you should invite her to a party or something like that where you would both be in a more relaxed environment and be able to get to know each other better. If you have your friends around (and maybe her friends too) you will both feel more open and relaxed and finally be able to talk to each other. Maybe a group of people could go to an amusement park or something, you get the idea. Good luck! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    First, say hello. Then compliment something she's wearing or tell her she looks nice, etc. She will get the point and she'll be flattered too. That will normally open a girl up if she is the least bit interested.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    haha, i will keep an eye on this question because im sort of in the same situation, eye contact yet no words between us, i would love to help you but im not quite sure what to do hehe, im just like you

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