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How do you heal a broken heart?
How do you keep the faith that love is not another illusion?
How do you trust someone with your heart again?
Its funny how I've been answering questions like this & now feeling like I could do with some help myself or views from your perspective :)
I know hearts take time to heal. Its hard though, when the person you've looked for all your life turns out to be someone that dosnt even realise that the pieces fit.
Im sorry if I sound silly.
Thank you for taking time to answer my question/s.
EDIT: Special Thanks to Keepitsimple, Stella & Blue Desert. Unfortunately, I can only pick one best answer. Nevertheless, your answers did hit a chord & I feel a lot better. I appreciate your sincerity in answering my questions :)
Stella - You're right, they should deserve your heart.
keepitsimple - When I do get over this, I might actually find some humour with the emotions I felt :) I have always believed that there is always someone who's worse off then us. So, we're pretty blessed that way.
Blue Deset - I liked the way you said 'The person who deserves your tears, will never let you cry.' That is very true.
I'm sure I'll find happiness someday :)
11 Answers
- keepitsimpleLv 51 decade agoFavourite answer
time and a positive attitude think this too shall pass you have learned from it leave the bad memories and gather up the good stuff and move on a more rounded person stuff happens you are definitely not alone most people who have been hurt feel so alone look around you half the world has gone thru some major grief can you believe me in time you can look back and smile maybe even laugh and find humor in all this drama life is too short go out there and find someone else so what if you make a mistake thats part of life you will go on living and this hurt will fade
- 1 decade ago
Well, I'm not sure if this is going to help.
But I believe love is an illusion. I think TRUE love, is real, just rare.
I have serious problems with trust also. & I am looking for answers to that question too.
I mean I think trusting someone with your heart isn't easy and I think they should DESERVE your heart.
I believe hearts do take time to heal, but once they have been cut. They always will keep a scar. Even if it fades.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
*Give yourself time.
*Believe in your inherent goodness. You know it was your partner's fault, not yours.
*Develop some other habit which keeps you away from those thoughts, maybe some kind of charity.
*If possible, change the environment around you, like meeting new people.
*Seek professional help, if you think it necessary.
*Move on. You know its the only thing you can do.
The Golden Words are: "Don't Cry in Love". Because for whom you are crying do not deserve your tears. And the person who deserves will never let you cry!
Good Luck!
- Anonymous7 years ago
You should really check out Michael Fiore's video on how to get your ex back in a matter of days through text messages. It's crazy but it works, I never believed I could get back with my ex wife in this life time but it did happened. I cheated on her a lot of times and still we are back together (won't do it again), unbelievable what some psychology can do.
Anyway, watch the video here: http://www.textyourexback.link/ - it will blow your mind. Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don't that's why I beat it into submission. Make's me feel better.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Time heals everything but i'd suggest to keep your mind busy. dont think about it sooo much