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old flame pop up out of nowhere, after nearly 10 years.?
I was in love with a guy , i met right after i relocated in the downtown area almost 10 years ago. but this guy unfortunately did not feel the same about me, after a while of pursuing him i gave up, one day i went by his home, one of the guys that lived in his building started telling me negative things about the guy i was in love with .that he does'nt love me etc, but i had already knew that , but i was so infatuated with him. I don't know i guess i just love bad boys you know. but any way i pretented to go along with what this other guy was telling me, so we started dating, but i only dated him to make the other guy jealous, after a couple of days a big fight broke out between them, the second guy whom i really did'nt love ask me to choose, but i chose the guy i always liked .that was the last time i saw him, until a little over a week ago. but since then i've become a christian and part of my belief is to avoid adultery & fornication, tell me how is it that i cannot stop thinking about this guy, i mean he was'nt even the one i was even in love with. he still looks good still, and then too i have put on a lot of weight since then, please help.
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavourite answer
Maybe you did have some feelings for him and are harboring some guilt about what happened. Or it could be that seeing him brings up that particular time of your life and that's what you miss. It sounds as if he was the last guy you dated before you decided to avoid sex and adultery. Maybe just confront what he represents and talk to him. You'll find that it won't lead to what you fear it will lead to.
- 1 decade ago
people sometimes come & go in our lives. You are the only one that can give an honest answer to your question. What kind of a person is this guy? Where has he been & what has he been doing for 10 years then all of a sudden want to pop up in your life? If it didn't work out 10 years ago, there is a REAL GOOD chance that it won't work out this time either. It will all work out,Make the best of EvERY day in your life!!!
Source(s): life - mensahLv 45 years ago
DONT enable the universities do all the coaching, maximum of it would come from the dad and mom! i've got been given my era at age 9, (particular; AGE 9!) and that i found out approximately it from instructors, from people i wasnt even delicate with, and it became into devestating and it became into embarassing, and it harm emotionally that my very own mom couldnt prepare me for this. i felt so unhappy and betrayed... like, she knew all alongside and couldnt prepare me. and then my mom have been given mad via fact of what the school taught me. i comprehend its a annoying subject yet once you handle it maturely then she would be ready to too. there's a ton of examining fabric online and interior the library that could earnings the the two considered one of you. i additionally think of that youngsters that study those issues from there dad and mom are greater probable to make a to blame decision while the time includes have intercourse. think of roughly it this type, she is YOUR daughter, you choose directly to be there for her while she learns to rigidity, is going to varsity, gets married, has toddlers, you choose directly to help her and handbook her by way of existence, techniques-blowing? it rather is in basic terms considered one of those issues, perhaps no longer the main friendly, yet i myself think of its considerable that it comes from you. and it is going to additionally make it so as that she would be ready to have faith you and are available to you if there's a difficulty.
- .Lv 51 decade ago
Pray about it.
And work out a little--it'll make you feel better.
Also, learn how to use punctuation. Run-on sentences are exhausting to try to read and figure out what a person is saying in their post you know, it's just really hard to try to figure out a question when someone is going on and on and on with little to no pause, we really can't help you at all, I mean at all, if we can't understand the question now can we really, I mean really.
