Hey YA, I am a guy and I have a girl Q. Who wants to answer?

hi all.

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Ok. Here goes.

During finals week of spring, I met a girl at the University library and we started hanging out and becoming fast friends in few very short weeks. She has a boyfriend. She told him, that she met a really cool guy. (her words, not mine. Boyfriend was mad, and asked her not to see me, but he goes to college in a different city, though the same state) Although we had a very close friendship, I was always trying to woo her, there were so many things about us that we both felt so strongly attracted to. I loved her so much, In fact I was so madly attracted to her and wanted her. And she would always call/text and see me, every single day. We would get lunch, dinner, go running, study, hangout... I always said, it isn't fair that her boyfriend found her first and how jealous I feel (and sad too, coz I didn't want to steal another mans girl.) I always kept an honorable distance respecting him.

At one point her boyfriend found my email address through her facebook account and even sent me an email asking me to back off. Here is the link to that email only if you want to read it. -> http://pastebin.ca/1550907 And she did too. I have been rejected in the past and I know exactly how a girl would respond when they turn someone down. But, she wrote me to after she went to Europe, how she has this boyfriend and that we should just be friends, and how she would like to keep our friendship platonic.

Anyways, for the summer she went to Europe for over a month and came back a month ago (her home is close to boyfriend). And when she returned, she called me on my cellphone sad and upset. She told me how she had broken up with her boyfriend, how she met another man back in Europe and had feelings for him, but not together, and how lonely and sad and heartbroken she is now. (sigh!!) She said, she never imagined that she would ever break up with her boyfriend in her life (they were real serious).

Now summer is almost over and school started. She is back here in school. Guess what she did the very first day. She texted me and wants to see me. We texted now back and forth few basic Q's.

Here is my Q. What is going on with this girl? Is she attracted and interested in me? Why would a girl tell her boyfriend of many years that she 'met a cool guy' and hangout with me for few weeks all the time and then tell me she doesn't want me as a boyfriend ever. and then breakup with her boyfriend and now text me and wants to hangout with me?? I am terribly confused. I have learned to move on. Although the thought of this particular girl aches me much and it was very hard, I found healing from this woe during this past summer alone. Now she is again trying to come back into my life. I would whole heatedly accept her back as a friend (Much as I want this very special girl in my life as mine). What should I do? How should I respond? I am going to see her and I am going to be very 'cool' with her and respectfully friendly for sure. I just don't know what she wants from me? What does she want? How do I know if she wants me this time again as a boyfriend or a friend? What do I do? I have a bog heart and I am ready to forgive her and forget the past. I would like to have her back. Or should I not give her room to hurt me again and leave me alone to pick up the broken pieces of my life. I am getting torn and stretched and pulled here. Tell me friends, What should I ask her this time?

Thanks so much for reading/listening (Im sorry that was long). I highly appreciate and regard your answers. Help me if you will.

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