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  • Where can I obtain on-line movie scripts for a certain movie?

    The movie is 'Oxford Murders'.

    I have already Google-ed for a solution, and found many meaningless links.

    I saw this movie and a certain line in that movie rings like a bell in me and I want to read it again, it would greatly help if a script is available on-line.

    Can somebody provide me with a good resourceful help?

    I thank-you.

    2 AnswersMovies1 decade ago
  • How do I say this in French?

    Its a person's last name.

    He told me its 'Little Rock' in French.

    I tried Google Translate, and it disappoints me. It didn't work.

    It sounded something like 'Lau-ra-shea' or something? For the life of me I can't remember. And I am not exactly first name basis with him. How do I correctly spell it if I am about to address him in an email?

    Can somebody please help me?

    3 AnswersLanguages1 decade ago
  • Where can I watch the Perseid Meteor shower tonight?

    Hey San Diego,

    I ask this question, nearly almost every year here.

    Where can I watch the Perseid Meteor shower in San Diego peacefully and enjoy it? The artificial light from the city never really gives us an opportunity even to see the stars on a regular clear skied night, not to mention this special occasion.

    I really don't want to drive an hour away from City far out into Julian or something to see the Meteor showers, but seems like I may have to. Are there any suggestions.

    They only last today and tomorrow. Its really a heavenly sight to watch.

    3 AnswersSan Diego1 decade ago
  • Is attempted suicide a criminal offense?

    Hi,

    Thank you for clicking on my question. I promise to be brief.

    I would like to kill myself.

    But I am not sure if I will succeed in my first attempt.

    Cutting my throat or my wrists are a always messy. The blood and the gooey mess it leaves everywhere. Its hard to clean up too. I never made a mess in life, and now should I leave one as I die? I like my carpets. What if I cut the tendons, then I loose my ability to even type a last word or leave a note behind. Even properly cut the wrist on my other arm. Not to mention, the scarlet mark it leaves me with, painting me with more guilt and shame while sending a message, 'Suicide killer here'. Ugh! and now if I don't drain blood fast enough, where do I end up? I really worry for my roommate Marco because of me too. He's the nicest nice guy I know and he's very simple like me. He is fun to be with too. Also I don't know how to tell him that I am out of whack and moody because of that but I really like to have him as my friend and not to hate me. He is either always away or tired sleeping. Last Sunday he made me breakfast as I woke up. And he always checks on me or put a blanket on me if I am cold while asleep. Today he made me dinner, and checked on me twice. Does he already know that I am very depressed and suicidal??

    Why do I feel as a failure and instantly get full of hurt and wants to end it all? Anyways, lets do the math, llosing 2.2 liters of blood should result in almost certain death. With that rate of efficiency, its too good of a technique for me to pass it up. As I see it, I come pre-fitted with a pump that can drain the life out of me. Now, why wouldn't I?

    Anyways, can somebody with some knowledge of the legal system of the US please answer me? If I don't succeed, will I end up with a charge? Not to mention being labeled as suicidal anyway and even end in treatment?

    Thank you so much for your generosity, answers and time taken to read.

    5 AnswersPsychology1 decade ago
  • So if I run into my ex girl friend...?

    hi.

    (For those who cry and whine about this is a big question, you can leave now. This is the internet, I can write as long as I want. I need to make my point clear.) Thank you for clicking.

    She was my first girl friend (well, now my ex).

    Some of you here knows me, knows what I want in life, My desires in my future wife, things I have struggled, hurts, part of my life,.. etc.

    Anyways, when she broke up with me, she really took the high route. It was a complete surprise and I didn't have the slightest clue, despite all the love I had for her. She gave me a note which said, not to contact her in anyway, she brought a friend along, and pretty much didn't even give me a chance to say anything much in return. I felt really cornered and beaten up. I was accused of many things, and some where absolutely ridiculous and many things were complete misunderstanding, that she could have simply asked me. But she was never a communicative person. I have tried so very hard to be as genuine, open and transparent with her, but she never would share anything. I always have to ask her questions, and even then her answers even to the most inane, trivial question would need me to ask 4 or 5 additional questions to know the big picture, which put a lot of stress on our relationship, which I actively brought up to her, but despite all that, I still loved her with all my heart. After-all, she was my first sweetheart and she found me, and pursued me. So it goes without saying, when she broke up with me in the most cruel way, I was terribly hurt for months. I was really sad, had to seek counseling and well my friends helped too.

    As a guy who grew up guys of my age, and time, and somebody who spent the last 27 years of my life in college, I have seen tons of relationships, breakups, many marriages, have both good and bad friends. I can only speak for myself, but I know A LOT about guys. And personally, I didn't like how a lot of my guy friends are like when in comes to talking about girls, or whether it is discussion about girls. That doesn't mean all. I have very good decent close buddies too. I believe one girl for one man, for life all life, and I knew in my heart that I would find the right one. But as I learned the hard way, that is not true. As you can see, how awkward it is for me. I only held hands with one girl in my entire life. Only kissed one person. After she broke up, I felt really used, and betrayed. I felt angry anytime I see a girl closer to my age group, and avoided all parties, and common events for months, and hung out only with guys and now started attending a singles group. I now a "history" despite being super careful about getting into a relationship all my life. sigh! I've been getting better and becoming my old self slowly.

    Well, so now that I am back, I started hanging out with friends. And yes, me and my ex have a lot of common friends, and it is only a matter of weeks before we are going to run into each other.

    How should I conduct myself? She did say not to try communicate with her in anyway (it went into more details), it was hard to let her go, but she is definitely out of the picture. I need a woman who is more emotionally stable and who can be transparent and someone I can trust. And she proved it in the most splendid way that she isn't though it was late knowing and a surprise to me. So back to the question, should I stick to the standard, 'hi, how are you doing' ?, 'How is school, mom, brothers?' etc, not so genuine questions while keeping my composure, yet showing care, kindness and compassion or should I just completely avoid her (as her request). And trust me, everything in me want to avoid her. There is 6.5 Billion people minus one in my world right now. But I harbor no hate, bitterness or anger. Only pity. And don't want to look like a jerk, and want to still do the right and noble thing.

    Well, what do you think?

    Thank you for reading through.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Is it ok for me to tell my close friends that I take an anti-depressant?

    hi.

    Thank you for clicking my question.

    So. I take Zoloft. Its a type of Prozoc, but from TMA family. Which seems to work for me. My days now feel full of life. (I do have headaches sometimes as a part of the side effects though).

    Well, my question is, Is it ok for me to tell my close friends that I take this anti-depressant?

    Its not that they don't really know anything. Almost all my friends have suggested that I see a counselor and seek psychiatric help at one point or the other over the past several years. And a lot of them has seen me struggle through my depression, troubles in my life, hurts, and frustrations. And all of them know that Im sortof nerdy emo lonely easily depressing, quiet type. I also hate to volunteer. So I know my friends more than everybody else, and my friends only knows tid bits of my life,... but everybody agrees that Im very moody and get very sad.

    8 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • Can somebody who is or was in the U.S. Army please help?

    Can you please send me a private message so that I can ask you a few important informational questions please? (when you send email please mention your rank, years of service, nature of your unit)

    I am 27 yrs old. I just graduated with my MS in Electrical Engineering (fall 2009). I have close to 2 yrs of work experience as an engineer with a 'high-tech' electronics firm in R&D.

    I am going to enlist in the Army. ( This is a definite decision. Please don't even attempt to try and pursue me against this)

    I have some private questions I can only ask a real soldier who is active or retired (in the last 10yrs). These questions are VERY important to me, and I need your help. Please send me a private message (email).

    Thank you in advance.

    3 AnswersMilitary1 decade ago
  • How do I deal with my girlfriends mood swings?

    (I never thought I will ask this here. sighhh!! Here goes.)

    Hi.

    She is my first girlfriend and I love her very much, and wants to see her or hear from her at least once in a day if circumstance allows us. I believe it is very normal of a young man to feel this way towards the girl he loves. We have been seeing each other only for 3 months. I know how busy our lives can be, but I have LOTS of free time, and I am always ready to see her if she's available. I like to plan things ahead, but I never know when my girl friend would want to see me. I would send her many texts, calls, emails. I would ask her out on dates, movies, dinners, hangouts, little questions to know her, ...But she would ignore all of them. Then once a week she would see me. She would spontaneously decide to see me and I get to see her by surprise out of no where. She would hug me, or kiss me, hold hands with me. But by this point I am terribly hurt, confused and have been feeling lonely, have all these questions in my mind. And I always tell her carefully not trying to spoil the little time she gives us, how much I missed her, and how much I deserve at least a reply to my texts, a call back or an email. She would say she's sorry, after some disagreement, discussion and new promises we would have good time together few hours (usually me taking all the initiatives because she never does. sigh!), and before we leave I would tell her again how our important this is to me, give 'us' more time together to know, to take initiatives and see each other in our lives, and to please let me see her again (often times imploring) and then the cycle repeats.... Another 4 to 5 days of complete silence ?!??

    Each time she does it to me, it breaks trust. I would have no idea when to see or hear from her until she decides when?? Which hurts so much. And I feel she doesn't want me. But at least tell me so. Its like she's keeps me in hopes, waiting, desire,.... and she seems me whenever she needs me. I hate to say this, but I feel being used. I feel stretched and pulled between her. Relationships are not supposed to be this way this early. It should be fun filled, and always excited for each other, and getting to know each other. But not for her. She's either uncommunicative, sad or happy. And I am dying in confusion, hurts and loneliness. Its not like I haven't told her about this. I have many times. Everytime. Communication is important to me. I have told her that she can always talk to me about anything. She trusts me. And I trust her. But each time she' does this to me, its breaking that trust. There is an invisible bubble that is slowly developing in her, and I hopefully wait. I am always transparent and open to her. She knows everything about me, and I hardly know her?!?

    The interesting this is she is the one who found me, and wanted me so dearly. She is very attracted to me and she's the one who pursued me, texting, calling, letters. I wasn't trying to play hard to get or anything, I always wanted a relationship all my life, its just that it takes time for me to trust a person, and I warmed up to her rather slowly, but once I did, which happened in few weeks, and now I need her most, I love her, I need her lots and I am both actively and genuinely pursuing this relationship. I wish she would remain in my life forever.

    But 4-5 days of silences and seeing once a week (if I am lucky), her complete ignorance of my questions, being insensitive to my feelings, is driving me insane. She won't even say sorry after days of silence. Its always as if nothing happened???

    What do I do? How do I deal with her mood swings? How can I be a good friend to her? (Sorry this was long, but I felt I had to explain in detail to avoid any confusions.) Thank you for your answers.

    (We have both just recently graduated the same college, we are both well and highly educated, have lots of common friends, lots of understanding, compassion, grace and kindness. We are healthy and are not under any medication at least that I am aware of. We both have good morals, character and nature. I am not trying to get in her pants. And we both strongly believe in sex only after marriage.)

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Help! 16th B'day. Major bad day so far. What can we do?

    hi.

    So my girlfriends brother turned 16 today. So far its the worst Bday for him. He had finals today, and he isn't talking to anybody. (He's sortof emo, sad, depressed type, he has longish hair, painted fingernails, wears eye shadow, listens to radio head, dress super emo, piercings and all that stuff,.. you know)

    And he practically did nothing since he came home from finals, there was no surprise, no gifts, no phone calls. Just awkward silence from everybody. And his mom is always sad and wont talk. I feel bad. and my gf isn't fun right now coz she is feeling sad. and I am bored. I also feel sad for her super awesome cool brother too :(.

    I want to take him out to checkout the night life and awesome fun in our downtown of our Big city, but she won't let me (argh! He's 16.) I can't take him to an awesome party, coz she won't let me. I can't take him to my crazy rockstar friends, coz she won't let me.

    Ah, I want to take him to a movie atleast? and perhaps go some awesome place (maybe)? What gifts can we buy? What can we do tonight? Please help. I want to take him out. Thanks

    4 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • Where can I get the game 'Kingdom Hearts 3' ?

    hi

    (thanks for clicking on my question. love ya :)

    so, my friend wants to buy the game 'Kingdom Hearts 3' for her brothers birthday, and we don't know how to buy it? We searched online and can't find a store? Can you please help? Where can I buy one? Does BestBuy, GameStop have 'em ?

    Thanks :)

    4 AnswersVideo & Online Games1 decade ago
  • Does hot liquid Silver react with stainless steel ?

    hi.

    I need to dip, touch and spread an even coat of hot liquid Silver (the element 'Ag' , atomic number 47, d-block element) .

    My question is this -> 'Does Silver react violently with stainless steel?'

    Thank you !

    1 AnswerChemistry1 decade ago
  • Do you like to have sad friend?

    I ask this question, because I project a sad/sorrowful image. Its hard for me to go into details,.. but thats what I am. I have been this way for a long while. I want to change. I know I will become better one day and I am hopeful. I want joy in my life too. but right now this is me. I have very little friends because of what has happened to me and who I became over the course of last several years. Recently I went through a sickness and when I came out, my smily innocent face is all gone, i looked white and scary, skinny and had a short beard which I decided to keep trimmed (I am eating well now), but anyways, everybody's been telling me over the past years 'cheer up ....' and now the black rings under my eyes, bony tall figure and trimmed beardy face with longish hair seems to give a 'suicidal' image to friends/family.

    My question is,... do you mind having a sad friend? Or does all my friend care to only have happy friends.

    Thank you for your answer and time taken.

    5 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • So this girl asked me for dinner... care to answer my question?

    If this is a long question for you then please care not to read at all, I will understand. I am re-posting this. I had to include all the details for you to help better. Thanks for your patience and answering this question in advance.

    So there was a girl whom I met about 3 years ago, during one early spring. I was very lonely and had no friends at the time. We were both went to the same grad school. She quickly made friends with me and introduced me to her friends. I made friends with everyone, still am. And then about a year ago, she stopped talking to me. Completely. I was in complete surprise, sadness and had a lot of questions. I was always able to sense a distance. I was unable to impose myself upon her and there was invisible boundary that was a mile wide. I felt very sad, hurt and crushed. Many times, it drove me to such hurt, it felt it really hard to let go. I know friendships don't come with any attachments, and that she is free to go anytime. It took me a long time. I called, emailed, texted, wrote to her, no replies ever. I would send gifts, cards, on birthdays, christmas... she would write back in single words a thank you or send me another card. I felt so frustrated at our friendship, because I didn't feel like she was being a friend to me. I struggled a lot emotionally to let her go. but eventually i did. I am still friends with all her friends, and to be all honest with you, they are the only true friends I have, even to this day. Well, over the past one year I have never even seen her. She always had the liberty of inquiring of me through her friends who were my friends, and when I ask about her, they would simply always say, 'I will let you ask her that question?' which drove me nuts because she never did, she never even cared to answer, check or even reply to the countless letters, invitations, occasions, emails I have sent her. It took a long time for the hurts to heal, and now I have moved on. I always felt being manipulated and taken advantage of when she had the liberty to know whats going on in my life, and I had absolutely no means or chance even to know how she is for the past two years. And about a week ago, I got an invitation through email from her to join her for dinner along with the same friends who are my friends too and her mom. I feel terrible now. I know I am with friends, but they are all girls and were always loyal to her, though friends with me much the same, I had no liberty of whats going on. Silence was unbearable. I would feel terribly awkward and sad to open wounds which took me a long time to heal,... a year long of silence and not checking on me, and not caring to even reply is hard enough, not to mention the emotional struggles that I had to go through. I hate to be in this position. Over the last one year I remember countless occasions when I have invited to see her, be friends with her, and now this one time, when she tries I have to avoid going, all for reasons which she alone knows. I still want her to know that she can call me, reach to me, come talk to me anytime she wants,... but not this way, not when I still have a billion unanswered questions, not with her mom.

    I honestly don't know what to reply to her. I feel all my friendships are breaking apart and I am in a position where I cant even approach my friends and ask for help.

    Should I go? What do you think?

    Here's her invite -> Quote

    " Hi friends,

    So my mama's gonna be in town for a week and really wants to meet some of the people I love and spend time with. So I figured that a dinner party would be a perfect idea!

    Please come - I would love for you to spend some time around one of the most significant influences of my life, and I would love for her to be around some of my dearest friends! Love all of you dearly! "

    I feel terrible, at the mixed message in her invite,.. or am I being a bad friend???? What should I do?

    14 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • What can I say in this situation.. Can a girl please help me please?

    Thanks so much for clicking on my question.

    My friendship is falling apart with a friend. She ignores me and is being very cold. She just wont say anything, or respond to me at all? I have no idea why? It is so cruel, cold and painfully hurting. I mean, I wrote to her, and call her many times, send several texts her for days, try to talk to her when you bump into her (but she ignores you then, and gives you a cold shoulder, not care to even talk, don't even want to talk to you or want you there, You ask her how are you? and she gives a deep sigh! as reply,.. you offer her help with her Calc hw, and she says no, you ask her if you can atleast sit next to her and talk? she says no.. She doesn't even look at you the entire time, and has an angry and condescending demeanor (all this after being such good friends, hanging out, going running, going for dinners, movies, helping her with stuffs, fixing things, talking about stuff, being friends,.. ), when she behaves in a cruel cold fashion, and then you feel truly hurt and email her how hurtful it felt, and ask her to at least call you and when she doesn't, what can you at least say to her to bring closure to this friendship?

    I genuinely thank you for your help.

    I am about to text " Hi Em, I never know why you give a cold shoulder to me and ignore me in such ways. I have no clue why and you won't even say a word. its very hurtful. I only have good memories and thoughts of you. I promise i'll do whatever I can to never bother you again." -M

    But before I do this, can somebody please read the email I send her yesterday? I waited all day... no response. ( I atleast wish I knew why)

    Here is the email -> http://pastebin.ca/VIqHkyBJ

    The decryption password for the above link is: email

    5 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • Hey YA? Can someone please suggest me a processor temp monitoring software for XP?

    hi,

    I just recently took apart my laptop and cleaned out my heatsink, vents and the cooling fan. It has SO much dirt, lint and what not stuck, it was as good as not having one.

    But, now I have noticed that my cooling fan shuts of by itself every now and again. I hear this is common. But it still worries me a bit. I have no money to invest into a buying a new laptop, let alone a used one.

    So, question is, does anybody here know of a good, standard core processor temperature monitoring software that I can use. I have Win XP. Its an HP Pavilion dv5000 laptop.

    Thank you very much for your time, for clicking on my question and for your answers.

    (I need a good software, not a spamware. One that you have tried and used.)

    2 AnswersSoftware1 decade ago
  • I am electronics engineer, I have a 'Biology' question, I need help?

    hi,

    Thank you so much for clicking on my question. I am an electronics engineer. For that you know and don't know about us, it is a painful discipline to be in, if you don't stay upto date you'd be history in less that six months, as technology change quite fast in our world. In our line of business you get hired fast and fired even faster.

    Coming to question.

    I know some anaerobic bacterias survive in extreme conditions with no supply for oxygen at all. I want some data or clinical material, like say what are the types of anaerobs that trouble humans, say with infections, like the Clostridium sp.. they produce powerful toxins that helps break down human tissue and decompose.

    The whole point of this is, has any study been done in this area that allows us electronic engineers to benefit from? I am particularly intersted at the in the potential difference in voltage in terms of energy they dissipate when they breakdown or decompose tissues, If it is a life form, they surely have some sort of biopotential by means of chemical reaction which they have. We have electronics that work in minute nano-voltages, micrometer chips and communication gears that you can literally work on human heat emissions alone. Just to be clear, I am not interested in heat dissipation of decomposition by anaerobes, but p.d. of bio-potential from chemical reactions on various living tissues which are ambient for their growth/multiplication.

    Is there a biologist here who could email me or point me to the right source. I am currently working on a nano electronic chip design that cannot be attached to any known power source mankind has ever invented yet for industrial grade sadly.

    ( I remember reading during college days of a certain anaerobic bacteria that lives on tooth, which made it all the way to moon on a certain electronic equipment which was accidentally transferred by one of the techs, and later when on a second mission to the moon a yr or two later when the device was brought back to earth, nasa found this bacteria still alive.)

    5 AnswersBiology1 decade ago
  • Hey YA? I'm a guy. and I have to share a bathroom with a girl. Can a girl help me here?

    hi all,

    Thanks so much for clicking on my question. I highly appreciate your time taken and patience.in reading this. Thanks again for your answers.

    So, I live with a very very VERY old couple in a quite Big house. Like Peter Parker in Spiderman and house he stayed with his old aunt and uncle. I am not related to them, but they have known me for a long time (I have no relatives/parents. Im orphaned. no adopted parents. nobody. sort of quiet, suffer in silence type average nerd type if you will) and they like me, and know that I'm a very quite decent young man. I go to college. I live upstairs, and they live downstairs. They could hardly come upstairs. (This is a old but big house, overlooking a canyon, its beautiful and always cleanly kept, there is a maid)

    Anyways, I just learned that their grand daughter is visiting for sometime, and will be staying upstairs at one of the rooms next to mine. She is closer to my age, and her grandparents trust me. I have seen her and played with her when I was tiny.We haven't seen in 21yrs now.

    Here is the question:

    There is only one bathroom upstairs. Its big and I always keep it pristine clean. mirrors, floor and all. There is two sinks, and a big shower room etc. Since we are going to share the bathroom, what must/must nots should I do to make thinks less awkward. If you were a girl and has to share a bathroom, what are your likes dislikes?

    I figure, now I cant make the quick dart in my towel from the bathroom to my room :/.

    Usually when I use my sink, I usually wipe off the water from the counter and the mirrors, I pick up my fallen hair, put the stuffs back where they're supposed to, let the window open. I usually take long showers (i wake up under the shower always, shave and get ready). I keep my deos, lotions and other personal products in my bathroom. :/

    Well, Help me? I do not want to embarrass myself or make life any difficult for this young girl who is going to be staying with us. :/ ugh. Now,I have to be self conscious a bit around my home, :/. (and can't have the fridge all for myself :(.

    p.s: I put an alarm to wake up at 2.30 a.m. too. and there is a big balcony between our rooms that over looks the canyon is common for us. I usually used to leave the glass doors to this open, but have the drapes drawn. should i close it too? (I sometimes jump off the balcony to the wall and the tree to let me out usually at nights sometimes- should i stop doing that too?)

    5 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • How can I start talking to a girl who stopped talking to me? I'm sorry I screwed up. :(?

    hi,

    I'm a guy.

    and there is this girl.

    She is a friend of mine. Well, she left for summer, never spoke to me for 3 months, and she asked me out to lunch yesterday out of the blue. She said her joints hurt, she has arthritis and it flares up sometimes. poor thing. My heart sank when i saw her. I ran to her and held her i my arms and hugged her. I helped her to my car. I took her to lunch. It was a very hot day. There is a bit of history between us. If I include that in here, everybody would get angry at me for putting a huge story here and wont leave me any comment. so I don't know what to do. I am confused and feel helpless. (If you would like to help me fix things, or atleast help me do what is appropriate, or help a fellow guy out please email me.) Include or not, how can I start talking to her? I was rather quiet during the car ride, I asked her some basic questions, how are you? where does it hurt?, show me?, meds? roommates? trip to europe?... And during lunch, I had my full attention on her. It was very hard for me especially after all what had happened, and to her it seem there was nothing wrong. She kept asking me what is wrong? Why am I acting weird? (I was especially quiet. having a hard time, putting everything that had transpired into focus, her sudden disappearance, and coming back all of a sudden and having lunch, i was visibly hurt and sad. It took me a long time to move on, put things in the past, and find healing, and suddenly she is back in my car). She felt annoyed at me. After lunch, I took her to trader joes, for her to buy some groceries, took her home, fixed her printer/computer, helped put stuff in her fridge, help clean some mess and said good bye. I feel she is still upset over how I conduct myself. I sent her a text this morning asking 'How are you?' and I received no reply.

    How can I start talking to her again? What can I say? Have I lost her again? I know she hurt me., but I want to be her friend, be there for her whenever she needs me. I know it will kill me, but I have a big heart :).

    Help.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Hey YA, I am a guy and I have a girl Q. Who wants to answer?

    hi all.

    Thank you for clicking on my question. I highly appreciate your time taken and your answers. So if you are reading below, please do not hesitate to leave your opinion for me okay. Thanks again in advance.

    Ok. Here goes.

    During finals week of spring, I met a girl at the University library and we started hanging out and becoming fast friends in few very short weeks. She has a boyfriend. She told him, that she met a really cool guy. (her words, not mine. Boyfriend was mad, and asked her not to see me, but he goes to college in a different city, though the same state) Although we had a very close friendship, I was always trying to woo her, there were so many things about us that we both felt so strongly attracted to. I loved her so much, In fact I was so madly attracted to her and wanted her. And she would always call/text and see me, every single day. We would get lunch, dinner, go running, study, hangout... I always said, it isn't fair that her boyfriend found her first and how jealous I feel (and sad too, coz I didn't want to steal another mans girl.) I always kept an honorable distance respecting him.

    At one point her boyfriend found my email address through her facebook account and even sent me an email asking me to back off. Here is the link to that email only if you want to read it. -> http://pastebin.ca/1550907 And she did too. I have been rejected in the past and I know exactly how a girl would respond when they turn someone down. But, she wrote me to after she went to Europe, how she has this boyfriend and that we should just be friends, and how she would like to keep our friendship platonic.

    Anyways, for the summer she went to Europe for over a month and came back a month ago (her home is close to boyfriend). And when she returned, she called me on my cellphone sad and upset. She told me how she had broken up with her boyfriend, how she met another man back in Europe and had feelings for him, but not together, and how lonely and sad and heartbroken she is now. (sigh!!) She said, she never imagined that she would ever break up with her boyfriend in her life (they were real serious).

    Now summer is almost over and school started. She is back here in school. Guess what she did the very first day. She texted me and wants to see me. We texted now back and forth few basic Q's.

    Here is my Q. What is going on with this girl? Is she attracted and interested in me? Why would a girl tell her boyfriend of many years that she 'met a cool guy' and hangout with me for few weeks all the time and then tell me she doesn't want me as a boyfriend ever. and then breakup with her boyfriend and now text me and wants to hangout with me?? I am terribly confused. I have learned to move on. Although the thought of this particular girl aches me much and it was very hard, I found healing from this woe during this past summer alone. Now she is again trying to come back into my life. I would whole heatedly accept her back as a friend (Much as I want this very special girl in my life as mine). What should I do? How should I respond? I am going to see her and I am going to be very 'cool' with her and respectfully friendly for sure. I just don't know what she wants from me? What does she want? How do I know if she wants me this time again as a boyfriend or a friend? What do I do? I have a bog heart and I am ready to forgive her and forget the past. I would like to have her back. Or should I not give her room to hurt me again and leave me alone to pick up the broken pieces of my life. I am getting torn and stretched and pulled here. Tell me friends, What should I ask her this time?

    Thanks so much for reading/listening (Im sorry that was long). I highly appreciate and regard your answers. Help me if you will.

    hug. Thank you!

    6 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Can somebody please help answer this question?

    What is this law of nature called?

    Thank you for clicking on my question, I highly appreciate your time and kindness to answer my question.

    Here is the question:

    In our nature, when a bird or a being is born or obtained some sort of deformity, cripple, lose of something apparent, lack of skill, ability in an aspect, or even became an abnormal nature, that particular life being may develop a higher than average development on its other senses or abilities, or skills. For example, a crippled bird who is the leader of a flock. An elephant with a broken tusk and gory scars becoming leader of the herd. This may be true in some case of humans too, for example autistic children who are savant.

    Someone who did some research in this and put a thesis, law or a theorm or something to that effect. What is that law or thesis called? And by whom.

    Thank you once again. Your answers and time are highly appreciated.

    [My words are not exact definition, but they describe the idea to a certain extend.]

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    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqQOE...

    4 AnswersBiology1 decade ago