How come people blame my hobby and says it is the main reason why I lose friends and have legal troubles when I have disabilities?

So everyone seems to attack my hobby and they don't understand that I have autism and so I am different from others. My friend hank last night attacked me again about my hobby of filming elevators. He says he doesn't film elevators anymore cause it is weird and stupid and he says he doesn't get why I still film elevators when I am literally 28 years old. He says it is a childish hobby and that I am acting like a kid doing it. He brought up about me having a meltdown last year when I went with pat on a trip to nashville and I had a meltdown cause he wouldn't let me film an elevator that I wanted. Hank says pat cutted me off cause he couldn't stand my immatureness and says he wants to associate with people who are mature and says that I am incredibly immature. Hank says no one should associate with you when you act like this. He told me to quit my hobby and says he thinks that I didn't learn a lesson at all by being arrested a few weeks ago. I don't get why he is so concerned about me filming elevators. He thinks that my hobby is going to get me into even more serious trouble. I am so tired of him thinking these things. I also don't get why he is so worried about what I do with my life. Why is he so worried about what I do with my life when I am 28 and can do whatever I want ?? Why does he think that I act immature by filming elevators and that it drives people away ??? Why does he think that this hobby of mine is wrecking my life ???