Should can't women be topless if men can?

no clue what that means

Beaches here on the Italian riviera  it's quite common. 

But see, you imagine pretty young things with D cups bouncing up and down. 

Naw, dog.........it ain't like that.  They usually wear a supporting top, bro. 

(although every once in a while,  you do get quite the free show at the showers!) 

It's a bee sting A cups and 65 year old grandma's that go topless.. ---and trust me, you don't want to see that. 

In Bondi an  Australia beach being Topless in 100% legal

Good point.  Most guys these days need a bra.

most of my partners in high school were topless

why is this in the military category 

It's not illegal in my country.

I have never complained about women Flashing their Breasts

i dont think so

Yes. In some places they can.