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I just wrote a sweet letter to my boyfriend of a couple months, because he lives in a different state so we don't see each other during the week, and because he said he "never" gets letters in the mail so I thought it would be a good surprise.

We have not yet said the L-word to eachother in person, so I am not sure if it's a good idea to sign the letter to him as "love," but everything else (like sincerely) seems so formal! He recently wrote me a letter and signed it, "With all my heart" so I think it's a safe bet that he cares about me as I do him...

Should I use "with all my heart" too even though it's not very creative since he used it? Or something else? Suggestions welcome, and thank you in advance.

I'm just wondering if anyone else has done this, intentionally or not! Feel free to share your experiences.

Like, you're thinking about someone a lot, and then they call to tell you they dreamed about you, or they email you at the very same time you were dreaming about them to say that, all of the sudden, they were thinking about you.

This happens to me often. I wish I could make it happen with winning lotto numbers! :-)

A psychologist told me that, in order to prove you are not an alcoholic, you have to go six months without any booze at all. If after that time, you can be a "responsible social drinker," then indeed that's all you are and it's okay to have a drink or two. But if you cannot make it six full months without a single drink, or you binge drink after the six months, you have a drinking problem/are an alcoholic.

Is this true? It sounds extreme, but I don't know much about psychology...

I pissed off a Scorpio! Big time. Now I want him back on my good side, to be friends again at least. Any suggestions for appeasing him are greatly appreciated!!!

P.S. I am a Libra, so I am surprised that I pissed him off so much, as I am usually much more of a diplomat.

Thanks for answering!

I am what I would consider a "reformed cheater." Never in marriage, only with boyfriends, but I really do not want to cheat on my current boyfriend, as I am lucky to have him in my life and don't want to screw up.

Therefore, I am wondering what's worked for anyone else who considers themselves a "reformed cheater" - someone who used to cheat but doesn't anymore... because I believe people really can change for the better! So, any advice for staying faithful in my times of curiosity would be really helpful!

*If all you want to do is condemn past indiscretions of other people or lecture me, please don't bother answering this. I want advice to be a better person, not to get slammed for the past. Thanks!*

This article, "The Cost of Showing You Care" [http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticl... says Americans will spend $17 BILLION dollars for Valentine's Day! Wow.

I'm just curious how much people on here have spent for Valentine's Day...

1) Cards/gifts for family = $

2) Cards/gifts for friends = $

3) Cards/gifts for co-workers = $

4) Card/gift/date for significant other = $

Thanks, and Happy Valentine's Day, whatever it costs you. :-)