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  • Relationship commitment, what exactly a 39 year old man understands?

    I was suppose to get married last 15th of July but due to my would be Husband's sister's Husband sudden death we had to postpone the ceremony. This is our 2nd marriage for both.I have a 13 yr old daughter and I am 34 year old. We got each other from Matrimonial advertisement. It's about 6 weeks we know each other but the only problem is we are not in the same country. All we saw each other is through Viber. Long distance relationship maintenance is difficult anyway so we wanted to get married as soon as possible for migration paper work.

    1. After he got the promotion 2 weeks back he bought a new car.

    2. I had to ask for new wedding date which he gave after 5 months means End of December since he just got promotion but he didn't show the interest to fix the date himself when the first one was ruined for his brother in law's death.

    3. I had to ask to build up relation and give a little gift to my daughter in Eid (we are Muslim) even though the plan was getting married before Eid. He did send a small amount of money to my daughter but nothing for me.

    4. Weirdest thing is, his friend told me he bought $62K rings for engagement and wedding but he never told me neither he showed me!

    5. After he bought the rings he put up an unnecessary fight and next day he Returned the rings back to Tiffany!! 2 individual was the witness.

    6. Yesterday he again fought and banged the phone on my face when he knew my dad is going for a surgery today.

    My question is he a right choice?

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce6 years ago
  • Relation with a Married guy and um Single!!!?

    Ok to cut the whole thing short i must tell you it's a continue question from my previous question "Does he actually likes me or he is just looking for sex?"

    I met the guy on December 19th 2014 finally. When we met for first time never thought how will be the reaction but it surprised me a lot. He basically fall for me. Now worst part. He is not separated, he is married with 2 kids. And we met for 2 weeks but he didn't try to drag me to bed!! When he returned to London what he told me surprised me a lot. Because I was basically insisting him to have sex! He said if he had sex with me and later his tricky mind makes him to leave me then I will get hurt which will be hard for him now to take!! I am pretty younger than him and he really loves my face and me as well. He asks for my photo every day(normal work day look selfies). His behaviour improved dramatically when he returned. He never called me without Viber before but this week my net was giving trouble and the whole day he called me for 4 times!!! More over the biggest surprise was, he was asking for my home address. When i asked why he need it. Then he said he wanna send me something for my Birthday. I thought it will be something lingerie type things. But it was a damn diamond ring!! A big one!!

    What the hell is going on?!!! He is not going to leave his family i knw but he seem to be misses me a lot. In my previous relation I had a BF with whom i spent 6yrs and he never gave me anything expensive like that!!!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Any idea how guys born on 5th April are?

    By nature I meant

    3 AnswersHoroscopes6 years ago
  • Does he actually likes me or he is just looking for sex?

    I am a Asian woman. Met a guy on Whatsapp, of my own origin but lives in London (He was born there). He never told me where he got my number coz without actual number u can't connect in Whatsapp. We started chatting on 21st October. It's been more than a month we ae chatting. Shared a lot of thing. He mentioned he is more attracted to my looks. He is coming on New Years and asked me to spend the New Year Eve in a Hotel room since in country in his house there are people. In my country elders are pretty conservative about these relationship things. I like him for several reasons. He loves my body, he mentioned several time. He faced a break up about approximately 7-8 months back. His EX is in London. After his break up he took a job which keeps him busy almost more than 14 hours. He chats with me all day. In the beginning he was less interested to talk with me over phone but after i was pushing him now more or less he does call and chats very lively (may be not for long coz his time and my time conflicts). I started to love him, I donno how much he loves me. I asked him yesterday that is he only interested to have my body. He asked me back "If he reply YEs, am I going to leave him?" I answered YES. Then he said "I knew this question was coming. I like you for yourself. You are beautiful and a very charming woman". Should I go on New Year?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Serious Situation, if any psychiatrist reading it please HELP(Dad didn't agree to go for doctor)?

    It's about my 24 year old fully adult Sister Rita. She is becoming violent to others day by day, always angry, saying bad things about family members to her so called friends. I have a fear that the way she is behaving she may cause harm to the rest of family members.

    Background/History : We are 3 sisters. I am eldest (33) and the middle one (27) Paula . We both went to school and finished our grad. I am done with my Master degree and working with reputed CA farm. My career is of 11 years. We 2 sisters are absolutely normal with our life. My 3rd Sister Rita She still couldn't pass high school (A-level) because she can't remember what she read and this problem started 5/6 years back. She is very weak in Mathematics. She was slim & good looking but now she is gaining weight for over eating. She doesn't have any friend. Most of her friends can not stand her more than 5 minutes because she goes nuts. Last year she stole money from Moms purse as well Paula said she was loosing money from her purse and other places as well. Rita is addicted to Movies like Harry Potter & Twilight(God knows how many times she watched), also since she discontinued her study she stays at home all day browsing net and watching TV daily soaps. Last year she did another thing which i am pretty shocked, she tried to buy A-Level certificate since she couldn't pass. She suppose to get admitted in University back in 2011 but without passing high school she couldn't. It seems to be her mind is working ok.

    4 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • What is the best BLUE color hair color for Asian Black hair?

    I want to do a Blue Ombre. Can any one tell me exactly which Brand and shade of blue worked for a Natural Asian Black hair (available in USA/UK). Please answer only if you are experienced.

    Hair7 years ago
  • Am I in love again? I am not teenager but i am feeling like a teen :~?

    ok, I broke up 6 months ago and recovered from all the past broke up thingy ..it took me a while since that was a bloody 6yrs relation and it didn't turn as i was expecting. I sacrificed a lot for this stupid relationship and finally got out 6 month back.

    I gave a garage Sale last month and at that time a guy came to my place to buy some books from me. We met in a group in FB, don't really know him well. I saw him for the first time last month. We chatted in FB several times but never talk over phone like long time because we barely know each other. Also i found the guy is extremely level of shy and uncomfortable with me (god knows why or may be my mistake). He again came yesterday to buy some books but weird thing is he didn't buy anything but talked with me for 2 hours!! I provoked him to speak about him since he seems very introvert. He said, he may be going to face a divorce very soon. He's of my age(32+). How to deal with him? I like him so much but don't know if he likes me or not. I offered him lunch next sunday since it's my Birthday but he just said ok.. Am i going too fast? Or he just doesn't like me? I am confused, can't breath, feeling impatience etc etc..Come on I am not 16. Just don't wanna go through same bad broken heart situation again

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships7 years ago
  • Need some mental support :(?

    I don't know if anybody has time to read it. I am a single mom of 32yrs. Not in any kind of relationship for last 1 year neither i went for any random sex(i extremely hate this random thing) . Last boyfriend was married so had to leave him (It was a headache). I don't regret for giving up a 6 yr relationship coz i kept myself busy in my job and other activities. But I have no idea why from last October people around me started to hate me! I am definitely smarter than these buggers and they know it from the day one but i never tried to show off! Neither i tried to make bosses happy with something else! A particular woman is giving her life to destroy my career by hook or by cook to get MY POSITION!!WTF! She just hypnotized my immediate 2 supervisors(2 women asshole) and they are giving me pain every moment. It's like they are trying me to leave the job willingly. I have a 11+ yr old daughter's responsibility on my head otherwise could kick on this job's *** long back. Really frustrated, have very less money in hand for last couple of months for some house hold purpose, didn't travel any where within last one year. I feel like to suicide :( . Some family people like my uncle also trying to show up as rival in case of family issues..really tired of life.

    3 AnswersMental Health7 years ago
  • Where can I get a design TEMPORARY body Tattoo in cheap rate?

    Has to be online. I want a big one starting from my neck for a backless dress. I want a temporary feminine type Tattoo which will last for at least a month

    2 AnswersTattoos8 years ago
  • What is the best Hello Kitty Digital Camera for a 11 year old kid?

    Please mention the model number and if possible with purchase link.

    I am looking for something with LCD screen.

    2 AnswersCameras8 years ago
  • Need Help for "Ben Nye HD Matte Foundation"?

    I am a very typical Indian Tan Brown skin. In Mac I am NC35. I want to try Ben Nye HD Matte Foundation for this summer, but I became total confused looking at their color chart!! My Guess most probably my skin will suit Tan Brulee No-09 (I got the idea from a Indian girl blogger) or Golden Spice MH-08. But I am not sure. I am a yellow undertone. Please help me to, since I live in Asia so if it's a mistake I can't return it. Need your help.

    2 AnswersMakeup8 years ago
  • Best nude peach lipstick for Indian brown skin?

    i am typical Indian golden brown skin(I am NOT dark skin at all) with yellow undertone. I am looking for a perfect Peach Nude lipstick which will be perfect for my skin. I don't wear flashy or too whitish or deep colors. Also I don't want to use any gloss since summer is near by. Give me a Lipstick name if you are 100% confident. I NEED A NAME WITH SHADE NAME/NUMBER.

    DO NOT - Just say randomly or just say "check in MAC"

    5 AnswersMakeup8 years ago
  • anybody knows the dupe of this Eyeliner color?

    This is THREE Flash Performance Eyeliner Pencil in 01 which cost something around $50!! .. I need a dupe. Help!!

    http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2RqpXPURF54/URRk9W3Z_gI/...

    1 AnswerMakeup8 years ago
  • Best non greying WHITE EYE LINER for Brown to dark skin?

    My Budget is $10 so please suggest me name with the price pls. And I live in a Asian warm country, heat is way too much so keep in mind which doesn't smudge.

    1 AnswerMakeup8 years ago
  • Best Volume hair Dryer?

    I just searched net. I have very thin fine hair. I need volume. Tell me the best choice

    A) John Frieda JF1 Full Volume Hair Dryer

    B) Conair 276R Infiniti Pro Volume Dryer

    C) Conair Curl Fusion Ionic Ceramic Styler Hair Dryer

    D) Revlon RV544 1875 Watt Tourmaline Ionic Lightweight Dryer

    E) Remington D3710 Ceramic Fast Finish Dual Fan Turbo Hair Dryer, 1875 Watts

    F) You have a name in mind - Write it down

    3 AnswersMakeup8 years ago
  • Regular body massage habit- good or bad?

    Ok I'll cut the long story short. My BF had a personal masseuse for almost 4 years. The masseuse was actually a Physiotherapist so his massage style was more like a medication. My BF use to take massage EVERYDAY after his work for an hour or two. After this masseuse left last year around Jan/Feb my BF use to request me that he's having a stiff neck or shoulder so if I give a massage that will be really helpful. We usually use to date atleast 3 days a week straight from my office. After first session sex i use to give him a massage obviously my massage won't be like a masseuse. Also after office after having a few drink and having sex usually made me a tired to give him a proper massage. He was telling me that it's a temporary problem, he'll get a masseuse soon. It's now been a year and getting a masseuse like the previous one is not easy. And day day after his demand for massage became more annoying for me. Yesterday I said on his face that I AM NOT HIS masseuse, I can't do this any more. Since then till now he didn't take my call.

    My question is having long time massage habit, has some side effects?

    I know massage has so many good side effects but having a massage everyday!! What problem can be created medically since this masseuse was actually a professional Physiotherapist .

    1 AnswerPain & Pain Management8 years ago
  • Vegens keep ur ideas with u. It's not your duty to force people to become vegan?

    Do not push ppl with their taste. We Non veg don do that with u. So don't force us to become vegan. We are free to pick our own choice.

    7 AnswersVegetarian & Vegan8 years ago
  • what is the best natural silver shadow for Brown skin?

    I am Indian brown. I am trying to find out the perfect silver which doesn't look like um wearing silver but gives perfect shine on my golden brown skin :( . I used so many..but still looks whitish on my lid. Any correct name of a brand with color name?

    Definitely I don't want anything will look like this on my lid, I understand white skin tone is perfect for any silver. That doesn't look WHITISH on lid.

    http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-WNgKfvHNrFE/Tzv8nSu6bvI/...

    What I want is the look like natural shine, nothing over do or whitish like this one, just natural look shine - http://www.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2010...

    Answer if you only know the perfect color or if have used or experienced. I have tons of Silver so don wanna do mistake this time. It's for my regular wearing

    1 AnswerMakeup8 years ago